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I’ll never forget the first time I saw the
movie, The Ten Commandments as a kid, and how I couldn’t help but
wonder how people could be so stupid as to build a golden calf and deify it. It
seemed so ridiculous. I never realized until later in life that I too was an
idol worshipper of sorts, albeit unintentionally.
How was I too know, having grown up in a
non-religious home, that all my mother’s beloved figurines were simply not
allowed in a Jewish house? Yet, for years, they entered our home like a ceramic
migrant invasion as my mother strongly took to heart the imperative to be
fruitful and multiply when it came to them.
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Each expensive acquisition ushered in a new
rule that further cordoned me off from showing them hospitality. They were
too fragile to touch. As a little girl, I would stare for hours through the
glass of my mother's curio cabinet or get close to the non-imprisoned statues
when the coast was clear. After all, I was a little girl, and they were so
pretty.
I always listened to my mother, except once
when she wasn’t home. There was one ceramic woman leaning against a harp. This figurine
really brought out the musician in me. I plucked at the harp strings of the
statue with the full force of my musical talents and with such enthusiasm that
the red-haired harpist’s head fell off. My mother threw the expensive statue
away instead of gluing the head back on, saying that once it was broken, it had
lost all its value.
Little did I know then that the seed had
been planted, and that one day I’d grow up and emulate Abraham who rid his
father’s store of idols by smashing all but one of them and telling his father that
the surviving idol had broken the others. When Terach, Abraham’s father, questioned how
a mere idol could destroy the rest, Abraham wisely replied that if they were so
helpless and incapable, why would his father worship them?
The second commandment heads the
list of the 365 “Thou shalt not” commandments in the Torah: "You shall
have no other gods before Me. You shall not make for yourself a graven image,
nor any manner of likeness...." (Exodus 20:3-4). And although most
of us do not have golden calves or graven images in our living rooms, we
are still not free from idol worship.
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Whether such objects have us
bowing or wowing, we’re not allowed to have them in our homes. But I’ll be
very honest; the lovely forms wowed me and held sway on my life and formed my
first impressions of what a woman should look like and how she should dress. In
later years I realized not consistent with Jewish values. Now I know better and
do better. Today, I’m tasked with caring for my elderly mother and her
possessions. The figurines, we jointly decided, are no longer welcome. One I
smashed for my own symbolic purposes; the rest are up for sale. Not only are
they forbidden but also included in the
prohibition are images of the sun, the moon, or stars.
It is interesting to note that most of the
idols in ancient times were shaped as humans, because what we are really
worshipping through idols are ourselves and our desires. People wanted idols to serve them and make
their desires come true. In contradistinction, a servant of G-d asks G-d, “What
can I do for You?” But an idolater asks what his god can do for him.
The worship of idols began in the
generation after Adam. Mankind honored and worshipped the celestial creations
as ambassadors and intermediaries of the Highest. As time went on, people began
to forget G-d altogether and just served the celestial bodies. Maimonides explains that in
its origins, polytheism was not devised in opposition to monotheism, but as a
flawed attempt to better serve the one G‑d. The rabbis teach that temptation
for idols became one of the strongest temptations.
In this week’s Parashah, Eikev Moses
reminds the Israelites of G-d’s command that upon entering the new land, they
must destroy the idols of the former inhabitants, lest they become ensnared by idolatry, for it is an abomination to God.
And the truth is, how many
of us become trapped in life by the things we idolize? Think about some of the
idols we worship today. Money, fancy lifestyles, fashion, our own arrogance, vanity, power, our image, success, our social status,
politics, and social media. Anything that
comes between G-d and us is idol worship.
Putting our faith in any conduit
as the means to our salvation or “mazal” is idol worship. Yes, we may need the
intervention of doctors, lawyers, or accountants, etc. But don’t think for one
second that they can help unless it is God’s will. I know the best professionals in many
specialties who failed miserably, leaving their clients hapless, helpless and
hopeless. Don’t turn people into gods, believing that they are the source of
your blessings. They are just vehicles. Only God has the key to your success or
failure.
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Our sages also taught that
someone who gets angry is like one who worships idols. For if a person believes
that what happens to him is of G-d’s doing, he will not become angry.
Friends, how often do we really examine our
environs and take a good look at what is decorating our lives, and whether we
are surrounded by idols both physically and spiritually?
Interestingly, now that I’m trying to get
rid of my mother’s decorative statues, I can hardly give them away, never mind
sell them They are simply out of style. Once upon a time they were prized
possessions in society, very expensive must-haves. In our day and age, they have
completely lost their value and relevance.
What a great life lesson about the things
we choose to collect. The only things that have value and last forever are G-d
and His Torah.
So, start seeking and "smashing"
all the idols in your life and start collecting mitzvahs. The
returns are investment worthy. In fact, they are priceless.
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